If you think it's wrong for one person to speak to another in public, read this first. One of the most common things I…
Tag: Dating
Meeting people IRL is perfectly normal, especially when it’s socially calibrated.
Note: consent is consent and nothing justifies sexual assault or rape, no matter what she is wearing, how much she’s had to drink or…
A cheat code for the ladies? The shotgun method
I had an epiphany this week courtesy of one of the ladies I’m currently courting (doesn’t that word sound lovely?)—my muse if you will.…
Why female dating is binary, fewer blogs, submissions encouraged.
I’m going to write fewer posts regarding what women can do to improve their dating lives for two specific reasons: 1) I’m a man,…
MIRL for the win! My experiment: SOD vs. Cold Approach
Disclaimer: I’m not a fuckboi, player, rake, or womanizer. I simply prefer to meet people—including women I’m interested in dating—IRL, for reasons I discuss…
Why female hypergamy is more important the male polygamy.
So I written a lot about how women are evolutionarily hypergamous and what that means in terms of dating and relationships, but I've ignored…
Flaking, high quality men, and other reader questions/comments.
Addressing a few things that have come up as feedback or criticism from readers. Keep it coming! I love feedback, especially critical feedback that…
5 mantras for singles who don’t want to be… single.
Disclaimer: all of what I'm about to say below is advice I've taken myself. And it works. What follows are actions you can take that…